She told friends that just because a site’s called SugarPapa doesn’t mean you can’t find true love. (Her mother had always said it was as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor one.) Later, she understood that there would be only money—and not all that much. And in that upper-floor room with the good views she understood that her mother was right about something: When you’re facing a sink of greasy dishwater, it’s best to plunge your hands in all at once without thinking